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Why this website:
I have been tutoring children and
adults for more than thirty years. I am
a teacher; not an internet
entrepreneur. For me, the joy
of teaching comes from my relationship with my students and
their families. It comes from
the knowledge I can and do make a profound
difference in their lives. I take this responsibility
seriously; and hope to advance the state of the art of
education.
Often, when parents are notified by
a teacher that their child is not doing well in school,
they are embarrassed and feel personally responsible
for what they perceive as some inexplicable "failure" on their
part. Parents often experience anxiety, guilt,
frustration, anger; or depression. This is
especially true if they themselves had difficulties in school
when they were young.
Sadly, this vulnerability can be, and is, readily
exploitable. Well-meaning parents are often coaxed
into signing expensive remedial education contracts, or into
buying products and services that are inappropriate or
unnecessary, all in an effort to buy a resolution to their
child's problems.
This website was developed
to offer responsible parents some practical alternatives,
an impartial perspective, assistance, along with some inexpensive
tools for improvement. Here you may safely obtain:
The
One-to-One Home Tutoring Parental Support Program
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Unbiased, objective appraisal
of your student's educational strengths and
weaknesses
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Custom tailored remediation
program designed for each individual student
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Choice of three delivery
methods:
- A cost
effective self-administered, guided program of
remedial instruction in reading, writing, spelling, vocabulary,
and comprehension
- A professional One-to-One
Home Tutor visiting your home regularly, where and
when I can directly provide one, or
- Objective monitoring of your
local tutor (or your school's remediation program) to aid you in
evaluating and boosting their performance
Learn
How To Tutor Your Own Child:
This website is new in 2006 and therefore, still a work in
progress. Soon there will be a full
section providing parents the tools to test, evaluate
and remediate their own child's reading, writing and spelling
deficiencies. You will be able to download:
- Diagnostic Tests - uniquely designed by One-to-One Home
Tutoring for self-administration
- Tutoring Methods - to teach you how to tutor your student
yourself
- Tutoring Materials - developed over a lifetime of
teaching remedial reading.
When guidance or additional assistance is needed, I am
personally available via telephone, email, and the
internet.
At this time the One-to-One Home Tutoring Parental
Support Program will be available only to those
clients within my local region of Northwestern Suffolk
County, New York, where Beta testing of these materials and methods
is now under way
A Professional
Tutor In Your Home:
One-to-One Home Tutoring can
provide individualized instruction in your home by a
experienced, certified teacher in certain areas. For information:
call (631) 261-7130, or email me
directly by clicking > Contact One-to-One Home Tutoring
Should a parent consider tutoring their own
child? My opinion:
No matter how dedicated and talented a professional might be, the
fact remains that no one knows, understands, and
recognizes a child's potential and limitations as well as that
child's mother and father.
"Special Education" and "Remedial Education" programs too
often define a child in terms of disabilities rather
than abilities, resulting in what psychologists call "The
Expectancy Effect." Simply, this is the unconscious
tendency for teachers to prejudge and under-estimate the abilities
of students whom they consider "disadvantaged" or "disabled" in some
way.
Which ways? The term "disadvantaged" refers to race,
ethnicity, and socio-economic status. The word "disabled" has
a specific legal definition, and refers to any physical or
mental condition that impairs a child's ability to learn. The
list of recognized "disabilities" grows longer every year.
Are all these "disabilities" nonexistent? Not at all.
Should "Special Ed" classes be eliminated? No, that would
be ridiculous. Most Special Ed. and Remediation Programs
provide valuable and necessary services for students who need
additional skills work in particular areas (although they vary
greatly in effectiveness from district to district).
However, in my opinion, in general, the less time
a child spends in these special services programs,
the better it is for that child, both emotionally and
intellectually.
Many parents instinctively sense this and seek
ways to supplement their child's
education. Some consider the possibility of tutoring the child
themselves, but fear they "might do something
wrong". This is understandable because, in our
culture, we have learned to rely heavily
upon "Specialists" in many aspects of
life. This specialist class, in an effort to perpetuate
itself, may consciously or unconsciously deepen people's
insecurities in regard to their basic abilities to
help themselves and/or resolve their own problems.
This website is based upon the presumption that
a loving, concerned parent is as effective and, at
times, MORE EFFECTIVE at tutoring his or her own child than a
professional educator
This statement is not unrealistic
idealism. It is a principle which developed as a natural
outgrowth of having worked with special needs children and their
families for 25 years, and having seen how useful and
productive parental involvement can be. Love is not blind; on the contrary, it often enables
people to discern qualities which others fail to
recognize.
I have found that, often, all that is needed is
some carefully structured guidance, a reasonable amount of
patience, good humor, and common sense. If you
are fortunate enough to possess all of these basic traits, plus
have a desire to teach your child, I can assure
you, you also possess the ability.
If the idea of tutoring your child does appeal to
you, try it! If after a month you determine the
program is ineffective, just stop; it is that
simple. Do not fear doing harm. The risk of
failing at helping your child is small, while the personal
rewards for you and your child can be very great.
So click
or call me at:
One-to-One Home Tutoring (631) 261-7130
Get started
today.
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Home Tutoring, Sole Proprietorship; owned and operated continuously since
1986 by Saralynn Ingrassia. Registered at the Office of the
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